Happily Married & in IVF (Mid-2021)

Steve's Accountability Checklist because, "I NEVER ASKED FOR HELP, STEVE"- Damages:

Due   to the Dr. Lee’s lack of a specific diagnosis, the lack of  testing,  the  extended period of drug prescription past last occurrence  of  symptoms,  the undisclosed side effects, the psychiatrist’s refusal  to  listen to  Fernandez concerning the side effects, the  psychiatrist’s  failure to  monitor or to disclose to Fernandez the side  effects of the  drugs being  prescribed, the failure of the  psychiatrist to monitor or  advise  Fernandez or his spouse of drug  withdrawal symptoms, the  psychiatrist’s  failure to continue  prescribing medication for a  per-diagnosed health  issue, the  psychiatrists repeated medication  mismanagement, the  psychiatrist  threatening hospitalization without  ever informing or  consulting  Fernandez, determining a course of  treatment without  consulting the  patient, HIPPA violations, breach of  privacy, breach of trust, extensive fraud, causing  excessive  pain, suffering, misery, and loss  of affection, Fernandez  incurred the  following damages:

Divorce: during the treatment period, Fernandez’s relationship with his spouse   deteriorated to the point where his spouse filed, and received a   divorce.  Also, the fact that Lee contacted Fernandez's spouse, in   violation of HIPPA/Breach of privacy, and Fernandez's wishes, lied to  Fernandez's spouse  about what he said, misquoted, misdirected, and said  Fernandez called  his wife a psycho, and lied about the date, didn't  help.  While Fernandez was also: under the threat of medication increase  and hospitalization; cognitively incapacitated from Olanzapine; had  repeatedly relayed life ending side-effects at every single appointment  which were ignored; couldn't function like a human being because of  repeated medication mismanagement; lost the ability to speak, and  breath; after his wife had a bad reaction to the vaccine and screamed at  him everyday for months, because he was nonfunctional; making it  impossible for him to save his marriage; and in the end because there  was absolutely nothing else he could do, he was given no choice, he was  given no help, he had a lack of informed consent - coercion multiplier  stacked against him, he was sabotaged at every opportunity by Lee, and  given ZERO information about how to work through divorce in regards to  mental health, after his doctor tried to murder him with medication  mismanagement, and also his divorce attorney gave him almost no advice  whatsoever, he got divorced, but his heart is hers.   Meier Clinic of Wheaton is a meat grinder.

Legal Fees of Divorce: Fernandez incurred $2,500 in attorney's fees.

Loss of Affection: $50,000

Pain and Suffering: $50,000

Loss of Marriage & Emotional Support Structure: $50,000

Gross Negligence: $50,000

Divorce Under the Care of a Mental Health Professional, Who Also Caused the Divorce, After Causing the Divorce: $50,000

Loss of Children: Fernandez   and his spouse had undertaken three IVF procedures and produced viable   eggs. The divorce settlement provides the wife custody of the eggs,  and  Fernandez accepted the classification of "sperm donor". Fernandez  knew  this may be his spouse's only opportunity to have children and  wanted  her to have this chance. Fernandez and his ex-spouse have 10  viable  embryos. He has relinquished his parental rights to the embryos  but  could potentially be made to pay child support. Six of the 10  embryos  are deviant and could require life-time care due to  deficiencies in  their DNA. Fernandez has been advised that his  ex-spouse may break the  marital settlement agreement and seek child  support without visitation  rights. The life-time support for a healthy  child is projected at  $2,625,480.00. The life-time support for a  disabled child is projected  to be $4,970,000.00. This combines for a  total life-time liability for  the healthy embryos of $10,501,920.00.  The life-time liability for the  deviant embryos is $29,820,000.00.  

IVF Reimbursement Expense: $20,000.00

Future Life-Time Support Liability Incurred: $40,321,920

Loss of Home: Fernandez   conceded his marital interest in his home to his spouse. Moving and   storage expenses also added an extra burden to Fernandez’s recovery and   ability to move forward with his life. Fernandez’s state of mind due  to  withdrawal symptoms caused him to concede everything to his spouse.    Fernandez received $12,500.00 from his spouse as the marital   settlement. These funds came from the marital estate and would have   remained part of the estate, except for the divorce.

Reimbursement Expense for MSA Settlement (Moral Obligation to Repay): $12,500.00

Moving and Storage Expense: $2,340

Rental Expense: $14,400

Replacement Value of Home per Independent Appraisal (Due to a typo, this was stated as $350,000 on the original damages, in May of 2022.  Revised 2024): $320,000 

Physical Injuries: Physical   injuries during the period of anti-psychotic prescription: severely   sprained or broken leg, broken bone in the hand, and five bruised ribs   due to falls. Fernandez also has four cracked teeth due to stress,  night  terrors, extensive scarring of the face from dermatological  issues,  known to be a side effect of Olanzapine, malnutrition and loss  of weight  due to stress and loss of appetite. This expense is  non-reimbursable  and will affect Fernandez for the rest of his life.

Various Medical Expenses: $25,000

Plastic Surgery (Scar Removal, Face): $30,000

Car flight: Fernandez   spent a significant amount of time in his car, thinking it was the  only  safe place for him to be after threatened hospitalization during  an  extended period of withdrawal side effects. Fernandez drove 60,000  miles  during the period of forced withdrawal from the medication. The  resale  value on the vehicle is significantly decreased due to excessive   mileage, year over year.

Replacement Value of Vehicle: $60,000.00

Loss of Community: Fernandez   has a strained relationship with his friends and family due to no one   understanding what was going on. The divorce that Fernandez was going   through, the withdrawal symptoms affecting Fernandez’s communication   skills, and Fernandez not knowing what was wrong with him have put an   inordinate amount of strain on Fernandez, his ex-spouse, his family,  and  his friends. Fernandez’s loss of community is irreplaceable.

Loss of Community: $50,000

Loss of Goodwill and  Lifetime Favors: $50,000

Professional Reputation:   Fernandez has had an inability to consistently work, which has  affected  his relationship with his clients, and created stress in his  workplace.  Fernandez has also had to take out an employee loan.

Employee Loan Reimbursement Expense: $70,000

Loss of Professional Reputation: $50,000

Loss of Marital Property: Almost everything that was non-personal effects was given to spouse.

Replacement Value of Marital Property: $100,000.00

Loss of Credit: A   60-point (2022) and 300-point (2023) reduction to Fernandez’s credit score occurred due to the  loss  of a credit account that he and his spouse maintained. Prior to  paying  down his credit cards, Fernandez's credit usage was at over 60%.  This  can be attributed, yet again, to a false sense of well-being  while on  the medication. Once Fernandez came off of the medication, he  began  having panic attacks due to his dire financial situation.  Fernandez was  unable to get an apartment for months after coming off  his medication  due to poor credit score.

Survival and Living Expenses (Non-ordinary Due to Divorce.  Original $12,000. Updated 2024): $12,500

Loss of Financial Stability: All   assets with present and future value have been turned over to   Fernandez’s spouse. Fernandez was essentially incapable of caring for   himself towards the end of their relationship and couldn’t handle the   responsibilities of maintaining material assets due to medication   withdrawal
 

Loss of Trust: Fernandez   states that he no longer has trust in the people around him including   medical, legal, mental health and other professionals.  He's working on  trusting the people around him again.

Breach of Trust: $50,000

Breach of Privacy: $50,000

Loss of Hope for the Future: The   complete and catastrophic collapse of Fernandez's life due to the   issues listed above has significantly impacted his ability to function,   both personally and professionally. Fernandez states that he has   concerns about the present and future use of his medical information,   loss of confidentiality, loss of privacy, a general sense of being   unwell and an inability to move forward in his life. Fernandez suffers   panic attacks when discussing his previous marriage, his mental health   (which turned out to be the side effects and withdrawal of strong   medication) and his life in general. Fernandez has panic attacks when   talking to medical professionals. Fernandez is also worried about the   potential for negative future implications as he moves through his  life.  Fernandez states that he has suffered unbearable pain, heartache,   extreme stress, and major emotional trauma due to the losses listed.  He  fears that some of his memories may never return. He has fears that  he  could potentially end up homeless. He mourns the loss of his   self-respect and his reputation. He also wishes that the time wasted   rebuilding his memory (months), his time rebuilding the perception of   his now new and unwanted life, and the real and actual time he has  spent  attempting to rebuild his relationships in the prime of his life,  had  been used in other ways. Fernandez also has a general sense that  people  are always messing with him after the traumatic statements from  his  psychiatrist, who he believes never took him seriously. Fernandez   currently is sleeping on a couch, is worried about being alone, and is   unmotivated to rebuild his life.

Loss of Future Income: $6,500,000

Negative Legal Impact: Shortly   after the divorce was entered, and prompted by Dr. Lee, Fernandez sent  a  variety of e-mails concerning his psychiatrist's treatment to his   psychiatrist, his ex-spouse, his family and her extended family. Due to   his general condition from the withdrawal from the drugs and as they   were excerpts from his journal during withdrawal, the emails further   damaged his relationships.  He has tried to explain that he wrote a  non-fiction book, for Lee, entitled "Inappropriate weening".  He  realized that he forgot to quote his sources, missed some statements  that should have had quotation marks, and also some that should have had  parenthesizes.  That's due to him not being able to remember everything  he learned in college because of repeated medication mismanagement, and  inappropriate weeing from Olanzapine.  It's all coming back to him,  given time.

 Legal Fees, Attorney Expense, and Fines (No jury trial. Original $11,500. Revised 2024): $6,500 

Medical Malpractice Attorney’s Fees and Expenses: $25,000

Loss of Marital Settlement Agreement Rights: Fernandez is also prevented from seeing his dog.

Replacement Value of Dog (Priceless): $1,000

Medical Expense: Fernandez   is undergoing weekly therapy to deal with the aftermath of what   occurred. The cost of the weekly therapy is $189.00 an hour.

Therapy Expense: $9,828

 Interest Expense on Damages (Original $0.00. 3-years, and  a 2024 decimal point error correction which stated interest as $2,940,000, 2025): $394,000

15  MONTHS OR 1 DAY, Steve Lee of Meier Clinic of Wheaton turned all of my  dreams into nightmares, and my lifelong ambitions, into damages and  liabilities.